#non binary and genderfluid solidarity

[the-real-bad-place]

Not to mention when you say "two of them were girls", these are the girls:

Because Janet is, as she always says when called a girl:

Meanwhile, when Michael is supposedly misgendered:

*crickets*

ok I feel like it needs to be mentioned that out of the main six characters of the good place only 3 of them were white and 2 of them were girls plus gave the poc characters ethnic names and it was literally nothing?? like no one made a big deal and it still stands as an amazing philosophical fiction which changes how you see the afterlife with a complex plot

[justdavina]

Emily is a transgender woman that turns me on so much! I love her red hair! I love her leopard print top. I love black mini skirts and pretty face. Lots of movement going on darling's.

[cipherinator]

I’m so sorry..

SORRY FOR BEING FUCKING RIGHT ALL THE TIME LETS GO

[yourpreciousrose]

intersex day of solidarity

November 8th is intersex day of solidarity, if you'd like to support an intersex person and get some pins and stickers etc and stand in solidarity with us heres your chance 💕

these are direct links to these ones but I have all different designs

also ones that aren't related to being intersex or intersex solidarity

if you have any requests for things you'd like I can try to make them, I also make custom art on kofi

this is how I support myself while trying to get on disability so I appreciate everyone that purchases whatever 💕 sending you all lots of love

[starlightandust-marejai]

WLM and MLM solidarity!

If you like this artwork please reblog to support a small queer artist during pride month! Pride Commissions and YCH are open! Dm to save a slot.

LGBTQIA | Gay and Lesbian | Bisexual and Pansexual | Transgender, Non-Binary and Genderfluid | Asexual and Aromantic | Polyamorous

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[cagandante-communistoide]

hi i was the tma intersex ask and i also happen to be non-binary! and i feel the same way about being placed under binary people and it's honestly so incredibly isolating because tma people's genders are held to such strict standards that not many of us even feel comfy publicly labelling ourselves as enby (ESPECIALLY gender neutral.. and god forbid we're agender or genderfluid or use neopronouns!!)

the thing is i do still label myself as that regardless, at least online and around other trans people.. and the more you get to know transfems the more you'll realise how many of them are actually secretly non-binary but are too afraid to say it and publicly present themselves as completely binary women because even that isn't taken seriously but it's at least a step above being a gender that the majority of the world doesn't even believe exists in the *first* place

and tbh sometimes i wonder what is the point of defending our right to use tme/tma when we end up just saying *trans women" and "anyone who isn't a trans woman" *anyway*, like the reason why i prefer those terms is because it's completely ungendered (but still acknowledges how society genders us) like tme enbies are out here feeling misgendered or attacked by the word tme while completely ignoring the fact that tma enbies exist and that tma is the only way of talking about our own oppression without misgendering ourselves.. tbh they probably don't think tma people can be non-binary anyway

and honestly just like my last ask.. even though my gender is completely outside of the bounds of male/female, i *am* still placed in a binary whether i like it or not.. i am either a tme enby or a tma enby based on many factors including how i medically transition and how i express my gender

and i 100% believe that society treats trans women as women (as much as they like to call them men) simply because i am also treated like a trans woman despite being tma.. just for being someone who was assigned male and transitioning in a similar way to many transfems (despite never being asked to be treated like a woman ever)

i still end up experiencing the struggles of most women but even worse because i'm tma.. and notice how it's very similar to how no-med enbies who were assigned female are treated (minus the transmisogyny), we're both treated as women, we both get shit for not performing womanhood enough, we both get harassed for being gnc, we both get harassed for wanting surgeries to remove/change our "female" parts (if you're a transfem who has ever considered top surgery to remove breasts after going on estrogen you'll know EXACTLY what i'm talking about)

and the only difference is that it's worse for us because we experience transmisogynistic exorsexism not just the general misogynistic exorsexism they deal with

like if anything there should be solidarity between us but instead they want to pretend we don't exist and maybe pretend to feel bad for a trans woman once in a while, what about the tma people in your *own* community? is it harder for you to acknowledge that someone with the exact same gender as you can be tma and you're not? do you even know any tma people with a similar gender to yours?

it sucks tbh being ostracised from the transfem community for being enby and even *more* ostracised from the enby community for being tma..

^

can't get over that one time i heard someone say "binary privilege isn't real." You just know that person's idea of a nonbinary person is a """made up xenogender""" or boygirldyke AFAB person identifying as trans "for fun". Or worse: "basically men" and "basically women". We don't register as a real group of people with real genders and real material consequences for it even to the most gender liberated people because to regender or degender under the gender binary is to unperson yourself if you can't be shoved back into your AGAB, esp if you are TMA. When it happens to a binary gendered person, they notice. When it happens to us, we're just not real humans who live in the real world and experience real things. I wonder if they would say the same if they had to look an enben in the face after they got done talking about how on top of having to strictly conform to gender roles to be referred for healthcare, the transmedicalist healthcare system for trans healthcare defines the vast majority of nonbinary people out of existence and you have to prove to your GP your gender even EXISTS, just so you can get misgendered anyway everywhere you go because NB people can never ever pass before saying "actually there's no difference between the way I am treated as someone who everyone agrees my gender even exists and you, someone who will never ever be included under 'men and women' no matter how trans inclusive we make the gender binary." sounds a lot to me like binary privilege and exorsexism are real.

[eldorr]

Desert Enbian

Plain flag (left), Flag with stripe meanings (right)

This term/flags were originally posted June 5th, 2022.

Last year or so (actually around 2 years now upon re-posting) I made my own take on the lesbian/gay/vincian/enbian flags since I am critinclus/radinclus. However one of the two posts detailing these flags was lost, so I am remaking/renaming them, along with simplifying and cleaning up some stripe meanings.

The original flags I made were 9 stripes, and I didn’t like the way I simplified them into 5 stripes, so I’ve decided to make a simple 6 stripe one. Some of these flags will look very similar to the ones I originally did, and some will look way different.

This flag is coined as a Enbian flag, however anyone who is Q4N (Queer for Enbies/Nonbins), NLN/KLK/XLX, or identifies their attraction to enbies as queer regardless of their own gender or other attractions. (Basically anyone who feels like a enbian, but may not 100% identify with the enbian label for any reason, is allowed to use this flag, as long as they recognize it as the Desert Enbian/Q4N flag. You could call yourself Desert Cenelian/Omni/etc in order to make that connection.)

This flag stands for inclusion and solidarity within the Enbian community, and between the Enbian community, other Q4N communities, and other non-primarily Q4N Queer communities (Lesbians/Vincians/etc). Generally just look at the stripe meanings if you want the general idea, I go into more detail for my reasoning below each meaning. This is a LONG POST.

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The Stripe meanings:

Top/Vibrant Aubergine Magenta: Aspec Enbian, Monospec Enbian, and Mspec Enbian inclusion and solidarity.

The Desert Enbian flag is radically inclusive of Aspec and Mspec enbians, even though I personally haven’t seen much anti-aspec or anti-mspec stuff coming from Enbian spaces, I do remember one time two people arguing with me that Enbian’s exclusively NLN, of which it never was or will be, so here we are regardless. Monospec Enbians should have solidarity with Aspec and Mspec enbians.

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Second Stripe/Vibrant Wine Red: Multigender Enbian, Genderfluid Enbian, Genderflux Enbian, Monogender Enbian, Xenogender Enbian, Agender Enbian inclusion and solidarity.

Of course these are not the only genders included under this stripe, however these are some of the more excluded and misunderstood even by general enbian spaces, so they’re here to explicitly say they’re included under this flag. Monogender Enbians should stand with Enbians with more complicated gender identities.

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Third Stripe/Orangy Red: Pronoun-Non-Conforming Enbian, Gender-Non-Conforming Enbian, Pronoun-Conforming Enbian, Gender-Conforming Enbian Inclusion and Solidarity

This stripe is here due to some exclusion in enbian spaces against feminine, xenine, and masculine enbies; believing that non-binary presentation can’t be masc or fem. This stripe is for explicit inclusion of she/her, he/him, it/its, neopronoun, nounself, emojiself enbians, fem, transfem, transmasc, azalean, carnatian, butch, femme, rosarian, transxen, xenic, amaranthian enbians. Gender and Pronoun conforming enbians should include and have solidarity with non-gender/pronoun conforming enbians.

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Fourth Stripe/Faded Orange: Enbian and Non-Enbian Q4NB inclusion and solidarity

This stripe is here to include non-enbian Q4N in enbian spaces, conversation, etc. This stripe stands for and includes anyone who has Queer love for enbies, and doesn’t primarily identify as a enbian. This includes saturnic, cenelian, celarsian, hecatolic, turquoian, etc. This stripe can also include enbians who are not explicitly Q4N, and may be NBLNBM/NBLNBW enbians. Non-Enbians are not the enemies of enbians, and enbians should include and have solidarity with other Q4N.

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Fifth Stripe/Hazel Yellow: Femme Enbian, Futch Enbian, Butch Enbian, Twink Enbian, Otter Enbian, Bear Enbian inclusion and solidarity.

This stripe is here partly for the same reason as stripe number three, however with the added notion that Femme/Futch/Butch are not lesbian exclusive terms, and that Otter/Bear/Twink are not vincian/gay man exclusive terms. There may be many reasons someone would use these terms, Femme/Futch/Butch generally relate to gender-presentation, and Otter/Bear/Twink generally relate to one’s body. Of which there is a lot of fatphobia in queer communities, so this stripe is primarily here to focus on challenging what a enbian “looks like”. Butch and Femme enbians are not the enemies of Futch enbians, and Bear enbians and just as valid in their enbian identity as Otter and Twink enbians. Be inclusive and have solidarity with other enbians, even if they don’t “look like” a enbian. Challenge fatphobia, transphobia, and queermisia in your own communities.

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Sixth/Last Stripe/Vibrant Dark Olive Green: Otherwise Marginalized Enbian inclusion and solidarity.

Like I mentioned in stripe number five, there is not “look” to being a enbian. This stripe is for the explicit inclusion of otherwise marginalized enbians, whether they be BIPOC, a religious minority, trans, intersex, polyamorous, chronically ill and/or disabled, neurodivergent, fat and/or a bear, etc. Include and have solidarity with other enbians, whether or not they’re like yourself. Challenge bigoted rhetoric in your own communities.

[freyrmichokolatte]

Nicktoons + other characters Gender, Sexuality, and pronouns headcanons go

Spongebob: Agender Pansexual Aroace, Any pronouns As if it isn't obvious enough that man rarely feels romantic attraction to anyone other than squidward "I like squidward" episode flashbacks and he just radiates pan energy

Danny: Transmasc Bisexual, He/They IT'S THERE. YES HE MAY BE UNINTENTIONALLY TRANS CODED BUT IT'S THERE.

Jimmy: Cis Bisexual, He/Him Look at me in the eyes. Look at it. Look at Cindy then Look at Timmy. You cannot tell me this man is not bi when THEY EXIST.

Timmy: Bigender Bisexual, He/She Timmy radiates so much trans energy; both transmasc AND transfem I can't choose so boom Bigender Timmy.

Patrick: Non-binary, They/Them Hear me out please just hear me out

Squidward: Cis Achillean/MLM, He/Him No comment.

Sandy: Lesbian, She/Her MY GIRL<3333

Mr. Krabs: Cis Heterosexual, He/Him He's the token straight friend😌

Plankton: Cis Hetersexual, He/Him The ✨𝐭𝐨𝐤𝐞𝐧 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝✨

Sam: Transfem Lesbian, She/Her She and Danny used to be T4T couple until she found out she was Lesbian

Tucker: Cis Heterosexual, He/They No comment

Cindy: Cis Sapphic, She/Her

Libby: Cis Sapphic, She/Her

Carl: Cis Heterosexual, He/Him

Sheen: Cis Gay, He/Him

Cosmo: Transmasc Heterosexual, He/Him HE LITERALLY GOT PREGNANT (or it's just like that)

Wanda: Transfem Heterosexual, She/Her Same comment

Chester: Cis Gay, He/Him Chester🤝Cindy = blond/e MLM WLW solidarity

AJ: Transmasc Heterosexual, He/Him I want to give him a transfem s/o<33

Chloe: Cis Heterosexual, She/He

Trixie Tang: Genderfluid Lesbian, She/Her Season 2 Ep 7 says it all

[demonfail]

Lesbimasc

Hey guys new term. I call it lesbimasc. This is a term to describe lesbians who have a connection to masculinity to the point of it affecting their gender. It's similar to the term lesboy but has no connection to being a 100% binary man. I know lesboy is a thing I know I KNOWWW. It's just that some lesbians dont want to associate with that label but still relate to it so this is a thing.

Color Meanings in Order: Light Teal - Butch and Transmasculine Lesbians Darker Teal - All lesbians who call themselves men but are not fully binary men. Dark-Ish Blue - Transfeminine butches and intersex lesbians who wish to use this label Navy Blue - Solidarity in masculine lesbianism Purple - Boydykes, transsexual butches, and the history of those identities. Lavender - Genderfluid, Multigender, and Boygirl lesbians

Light Lavender - Nonbinary, Gender Non-Conforming and Genderqueer lesbians Feel free to use this I dont really care that much. Just know a neutral lesboy/m-spec lesbian made it.

[thunder-pride]

Choose a palette and a character (or ask your followers to do it for you!) and create something!

Many thanks to Persea (@quasar-concept) for making the palettes and the background <3

Works can be completed at any time and interpreted as you see fit - we hope you enjoy creating with these palettes this month! If you’ve never considered yourself a artist before - special shout out to you people and we hope that you get inspired to give even one palette a go!!

Tag using #thunderpride and @thunder-pride so we can share your wonderful works!

Pride Flags are used to represent sexualities and gender identities for many queer people. They are a way of show solidarity both within and between queer identities, and also to proclaim who we are to everyone. Most flags also use colour symbolism to represent what the creator felt was important aspects of the community.

If you would like to explore more flags for #14, you can do so here (sexualities) and here (gender identities).

You can learn more about the flags that inspired each palette below the cut.

1 - The current Lesbian Pride Flag was created by Emily Gwen in 2018. A five-stripe variant is commonly used today.

2 - The current Gay Men Pride Flag was created by Triton in 2019. A five stripe variant is commonly used today.

3 - The Bisexual Pride Flag was created by Michael Page in 1998.

4 - The Transgender Pride Flag was created by Monica Helms in 1999

5 - The Asexual Pride Flag was created by standup, an active user on AVEN (Asexuality Visibility and Education Network) in 2010.

6 - The Non-binary Pride Flage was created by Kyle Rowan in 2014.

7 - The Genderfluid Pride Flag was created by JJ Poole in 2014

8 - The Genderqueer Pride Flag was created in Marilyn Roxie in 2011

9 - The original Pride Flag (now known as the Gilbert Baker Pride Flag) was created by Gilbert Baker in 1978. The six stripe variant (without the pink) is now well recognised as an umbrella pride flag for the queer community.

10 - The Pansexual Pride Flag was created by Jasper V in 2010

11 - The Polyamorous Pride Flag was recently updated by a community vote held in 2022 to a design known as the “tricolor polyamory pride flag” which was created by Red Howell, however the original design from 1995, by Jim Evans, is still circulated amongst many and still well recognised. You will likely see others if you go searching online.

12 - The Intersex Pride Flag was created by Morgan Carpenter in 2013

13 - The Aromantic Pride Flag was created by cameronwhimsy in 2014.

14 – The Progress Pride Flag was created by Daniel Quasar in 2018 and was inspired by the Philadelphia Pride Flag (2017). The current intersex inclusive version was adapted by Valentino Vecchietti in 2021.

Links to info sources: [1] [2] [3] [4] [5]

[rayclubs]

You've mentioned you don't like enby Pyro headcanons before, in spite of identifying as non-binary. I just wanna express solidarity because I'm genderfluid and genderfluid Spy makes me wanna tear my hair out.

Honestly, yeah, now that you bring it up, why is Spy the only one who ever gets the genderfluid headcanons? I haven't thought about it until this ask, but it does hit the exact same nerve as nonbinary Pyro - or trans Scout, for that matter, because at least I've seen people go on long and justified rants about how that's a tad transphobic, even if the same people will then deem me a buzzkiller for refusing to call the only character whose gender isn't explicitly stated a "creature".

Well, anyway. Don't send me hatemail over this, it's not like I came into your house and stole your nonbinary Pyro headcanons out of your bedroom. I just wish people put more thought into their interpretations, is all.

[justdavina]

Such a FUN outfit! This HOT trans woman just kills it with this purple latex number and those legs that go for miles!

[daintymayhem]

I don't really care about snowbriggs personally, but people shitting on his art and oc's are real losers. Ok sure, at first i thought his oc's were fem, but that's on his cutsie artstyle. When i see he/him pronounces and that the character is considered male, then i use he/him pronpunces. You're trans? Sure. You're non-binary? Alright with me. You use xir/xer pronounces? I give my best using them. It costs 0$ to respect people that did nothing wrong. I don't like snowbriggs' artstyle, but that doesn't mean i don't like them as a person. I just have artstyle preferences and i will stay respectful. I am genderfluid, use make-up, skirts, dresses and loads of glitter and i use he/him pronounces. People don't owe you masculinity or femininity. Whoever disagrees; fuck you honestly. Everyone can do whatever they want, aslong nobody gets hurt. So leave this little guy alone! He can draw as many boys in glitter dresses as he wants! I will now dress up my dainties in glittery made dresses as solidarity!

Y'know I dig this message so much and the fact that you didn't once use the word Pronouns instead of Pronounce is perfectly fine and I love u anon

I agree leave snowy alone he's just a little guy

[yourpreciousrose]

intersex day of solidarity

all over the globe intersex people lack rights to our own bodies, only 15 countries have some sort of protection for us. things like igm (intersex gen¡tal mutil@tion) are legal all over too, I was a v¡ct¡m of this back in the early 2000s and it still happens to intersex babies today. it is important to uplift our voices and to learn our stories, so many people have no idea any of this happens. there are literally exceptions in the ant¡trans laws to keep allowing unnecessary surgeries on intersex babies which isn't ok bc a baby can not give consent. today I ask of you all to educate yourself about intersex people and our issues and stand with us in this fight for our own bodies and existence 💕

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if you like to support me💕, my shops are how I make money rn so I appreciate any type of support:

[dndadspolls]

there are probably going to be some doubles in here.. you are this fandom's bravest soldier for opening this poll

transmasc lark & transfem sparrow ofc

transmasc tony

transfem lesbian kelsey

genderqueer francis

bi Glenn, bi Taylor, bi Tony

aro Link (politely giving agent schmegan an aro/ace solidarity high five while staring him down during the interrogation)

agender pansexual autumn

genderfluid linda/susan stampler

Scary has a fluid sexuality and gender identity and doesn't work well with labels

non-binary terry

Can we put down every S1&S2 NPC is bi unless stated otherwise

also so sorry but I love cishet ron

alrighty , those have all been added !

[apollon-emos]

Are your pronouns still whatever will get you out of this situation?

I cannot tell if this is said in good faith so I will respond with a level of grace unfamiliar on this website. There are places yet in the world where revealing a part of yourself, however inconsequential you may think, brings outright hostility. This could be a professor's office in an Ivy, it could be a neighbourhood in a region you have never heard of. It could be a language. For weeks, queer folks who have long navigated such hostility found a small space, a line of text on a website in dubious solidarity, wherein they could recount their courage in humour and community. Transphobic actors on this website and elsewhere rely on tactics of introducing doubt into what we hold in community. My own relationship to gender does not wholly correspond to or express itself in grammatical cases (like pronouns). So yes, I quite simply care very little as to which of a handful of pronouns in this colonial language best describe me. And I refuse to cede rhetorical ground to those who wish us ill. I invite you to scroll through the tags and comments of the post that brought you here: many queer folks including those who are genderqueer, genderfluid, non-binary, and agender have offered their own resonances as to the situations they are in and their relationships to pronouns.

And if you scroll all the way down, my tags say my pronouns are she/they. Those still work.